Orbiting and how to avoid it

Kunimitsu

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#1
Please give the ladies some tips to how we can refrain from looking like we want men to orbit us here while not having to seem unfriendly.
I’m not even sure what the signs are.
Do you think it’s ever possible for a male and a female to foster a friendship without owing it in some way to lust and physical attraction?
 
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#4
Probably the most sensible advice.
Too bad you’d have to lie about a core part of your identity to make friends.
People may still figure out female due to how you are writing, it's usually rather easy for me to tell while chatting with someone.
 

Kunimitsu

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People may still figure out female due to how you are writing, it's usually rather easy for me to tell while chatting with someone.
I think I can write more neutral or masculine but it doesn’t feel natural to me as I’m pretty expressive as a person, and it isn’t something I’d do amongst friends as it feels really formal and cold.
At the end of the day I guess I’m guilty of being one of those emoji addicts. (`・∀・´)٩
 

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#6
The best way not to get orbiters is to say you're in a serious relationship or a young virgin. Anything other that then there will be guys trying to get your attention. If you notice having any cucked orbiters screen shot it so we can shame them.
 

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#8
What? This is pretty much the only type of girl I'd orbit.
Not with multiple other guys. Having an online relationship with her where she's not asking for money isn't orbiting, unless you're being used the same way with other men.
 

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Not with multiple other guys. Having an online relationship with her where she's not asking for money isn't orbiting, unless you're being used the same way with other men.
I considered my episode with Tahlia orbiting because I was obsessed by her, but yeah, I didn't give her money or anything. I did give her lots of gratuitous compliments though.
 

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I considered my episode with Tahlia orbiting because I was obsessed by her, but yeah, I didn't give her money or anything. I did give her lots of gratuitous compliments though.
Complimenting a foid and spending too much time with her without her calling you her boyfriend would be considered light obriting.
 

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Men and women can't be friends when the only reason is that the woman finds the man unattractive and the man somehow believes that being friend zoned is better than losing total contact with her.
I don't even know why this should be explained to fellow "incels" I share a long post history with.
 

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The best way not to get orbiters is to say you're in a serious relationship or a young virgin. Anything other that then there will be guys trying to get your attention. If you notice having any cucked orbiters screen shot it so we can shame them.
Gotcha’. I’ll just try to be transparent and hope I don’t offend anyone.
 

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Men and holes can't be friends when the only reason is that the hole finds the man unattractive and the man somehow believes that being friend zoned is better than losing total contact with her.
I don't even know why this should be explained to fellow "incels" I share a long post history with.
A female here can only judge by personality of individuals, and that’s a main factor for some.
It’s difficult to say who here are truly incel because of appearance alone. I’ve seen many men on lookism or other picture rating sites who self identify as incel, where I found them to be perfectly fine looking and really couldn’t see what they see. I’ve fallen for men that would most likely be incel looking by these standards as well.
My thoughts are also that it would be difficult for a female to truly open up, trust and share personal information with someone that identifies as incel and participates actively in incel communities of a more misogynistic nature, alone from the fact that it’s hard to trust someone who seems to have made it their cause to hate your gender even without knowing you. How can you ever be sure that your personals details and pictures wouldn’t be shared and made a jester of? I know that would probably deter me or slow me down from attempting to build something serious with a person who identifies as incel or blackpilled.
 
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A female here can only judge by personality of individuals, and that’s a main factor for some.
It’s difficult to say who here are truly incel because of appearance alone. I’ve seen many men on lookism or other picture rating sites who self identify as incel, where I found them to be perfectly fine looking and really couldn’t see what they see. I’ve fallen for men that would most likely be incel looking by these standards as well.

My thoughts are also that it would be difficult for a female to truly open up, trust and share personal information with someone that identifies as incel and participates actively in incel communities of a more misogynistic nature, alone from the fact that it’s hard to trust someone who seems to have made it their cause to hate your gender even without knowing you. How can you ever be sure that your personals details and pictures wouldn’t be shared and made a jester of? I know that would probably deter me or slow me down from attempting to build something serious with a person who identifies as incel or blackpilled.
It's actually a coping mechanism, since they have been unable to get a girlfriend they cope with females being bad and this is why we see a lot of misogyny on incel forums. Incel.is is really toxic and i am sure getting laid will become harder once you start posting there, i myself should probably spend less time on internet and shit but i am addicted i guess.

Lookism isn't really an incel forum, the admin there is a slayer and many of the posters there are doing better then average too.
 
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